An Aaron Neville Christmas

11 Dec


While I wish the secret Santa would have been Van the Man, we got the next best thing. One of my favorites…

Aaron Neville. Joined by his little big brother, Charles and his Quintet. At the beautiful Saenger Theatre in Mobile, Alabama.


We were on the third row just right of center in a full house. The opening act was a local public high school choir, LeFlore Preparatory.


They were very good and quite moving. Their opening number was a very spirited African song that really set the positive tone of the evening.


They featured several solos that were all simply lovely. It was really quite inspiring to watch these enthusiastic, young people obviously committed to music.


After an hour, the announcer came out and welcomed Aaron Neville. Now, Aaron is a literal mountain of a man. At 66, he is buff and looks a full 25 years younger.


He opened with I Don’t Know Much and thanked his duet partner on that song, Linda Ronstadt, at its conclusion. Next came Stand By Me and Ain’t No Sunshine. In doing a little pre-concert research, I found out that these two songs, in particular had become special prayers for Aaron Neville.

Our local paper had a write up on the Aaron Neville concert on Friday. In that article, Aaron stated that this mini-tour was helping him get over the loss of his wife of 48 years to lung cancer last January. I had no idea.

Aaron Neville married Joel Roux (pronounced Jo-el) in 1959 when she was 18 and he was 17. His mother actually signed their marriage license because he was not of legal age. Through substance abuse, a prison stint, a rollercoaster career and four children, Joel was his best friend. He credits her with saving his life by throwing him out in the early years of their marriage and calls her his backbone. Dedicated Catholics, they both credited prayer and St. Jude with saving Aaron and turning their lives around.

Their life was anything but easy. Even after his 1966 hit, Tell It Like It Is, wealth and fame were illusive. Aaron supported his family by working the docks at the Port of New Orleans. Eventually, he started a band with his brothers and concentrated on the funky, back beat music of the Mardi Gras Indians, which is part of his heritage. His Warm Your Heart album was wildly successful as a solo effort and life got a lot easier for the Neville family.

Joel finally retired from her 20-year career at Charity Hospital of New Orleans and joined Aaron as informal Ambassadors for New Orleans and found a special place in the music industry with the fabulous rhythms of the Neville family, including The Meters, the Wild Tchoupitoulas, and of course, The Neville Brothers Band. All was really good until 2004, when Joel was diagnosed with lung cancer. Through prayer, radiation and chemotherapy, she went into remission. And then…Hurricane Katrina.

Aaron and Joel Neville lost their home and all of their possessions, as did many of their family. Aaron was in New York, on tour, when Katrina hit and has gone to New Orleans only once since the storm — to bury his dear wife. He has an asthma condition now that he feels would be exacerbated by living in New Orleans and the unknown environmental hazards that may be lurking. He also didn’t want to risk Joel’s fragile health by being in such a risky environment. However, he never abandoned New Orleans and has done dozens of benefit concerts to raise money for musicians and the people of the city, at large.

In November, the Nevilles announced that they will be back to play the 2008 JazzFest in April. It is a long awaited return that many residents view as a milestone in the recovery. It should be quite a joyous occasion, however I’m sure that for Aaron it will provide a stinging reminder of loss and what is missing. Great and enduring loves — particularly those who overcome adversity and trials — generally leave a gaping void when one is gone and the other is left to carry on.

While it was thrilling to see Aaron Neville on Sunday night, there was a certain pall and sadness to him. In particular, when he sang Amazing Grace….


Now, Aaron makes no bones about his faith. He’s Catholic to the core. He’s tatted up with crucifixes (including one on his cheek) and the face of Jesus on his huge bicep. He wears a St. Jude medal for an earring as a simple reminder of how a “hopeless case” can be redeemed.

I know the feeling.

However, my symbol is a little bigger and has more attitude. He had on a crucifix necklace as well as a rosary and an Our Lady of Guadalupe t-shirt. Being Catholic ourselves, we totally get Big Aaron. He’s thankful to God for saving his life and uses these outward symbols to proclaim his love of Christ to the world…and to maybe influence others in need. Perhaps that’s why is his music is so particularly lovely.

He sang for over two hours and didn’t clutter the performance with much chatter at all. He just really went to work and gave us great music. A few of the highlights:

Tell It Like It Is

It’s Alright

Please Come Home for Christmas

Silent Night

A Change Gonna Come

O Holy Night

Here are a few pictures I took from the show:








After the show, Big Mike, the keyboardist was out at the front of the stage talking to folks. Mr. D. had bought a fleur de lis Aaron Neville hat before the concert to support New Orleans and the re-building (because we’re loyal like dat) and we asked Mike if he could get Aaron to sign it. He said sure and got Jason the Roadie to go back stage. Within two minutes, we had our keepsake.



12 responses to “An Aaron Neville Christmas

  1. shrewspeaks

    December 11, 2007 at 9:56 am

    What a magical post! I have always liked Aaron Neville, but now with deeper understanding I am deeply touched by him. Terrific keepsake!

  2. morewines

    December 11, 2007 at 11:53 am

    Lucky you. That had to be a great concert.

    Here is a better URL with Hicks’ music on it.
    All the Christmas music not just 30 seconds.
    Appropriately called Th Radio.

  3. brc

    December 11, 2007 at 5:02 pm

    Great guy. Great concert. Great photos. Thanks for sharing with us.

  4. Drew

    December 18, 2007 at 11:50 am

    Great post! I have always loved Aaron Neville. He played at our school for my graduation concert. God bless him and his wife in heaven. Great blog you got here.

    Bless, one love

  5. music maven

    December 18, 2007 at 12:16 pm

    Thanks, Drew. And thanks for commenting. Nice to know that folks are out there reading.


    • Ramona

      September 3, 2012 at 1:50 pm

      Jeez, so blessed! Thanx so much for posting

  6. mimotou

    February 25, 2008 at 8:38 pm

    Wow! Aaron Neville is Fantastic! I love his song Crazy Love. The lyrics are simple and sweet and portray the intensity of a crazy love!

  7. Marie-José

    February 26, 2008 at 9:09 am

    Thanks for sharing this beautiful pictures with us!
    We European fans are always thankful for any new picture of Aaron performing in the US….
    Thanks again, take care,
    Marie-José [The Netherlands]

    • Ramona

      September 3, 2012 at 1:52 pm

      hey, check out fan page on facebook! i’m always adding stuff like this & vids, to his many fans who may love them as I do

  8. Lavon Pagan

    August 9, 2008 at 9:51 am

    The impact that this giant of a musician has had the musical world cannot be overestimated. With a career spanning 50 years, Aaron is truly one of God’s great gifts to the musical planet.

    • Ramona

      September 3, 2012 at 1:45 pm

      Amen, Thank you Jesus, for Aaron! check out his facebook fan page!

  9. Heart Bracelet :

    October 31, 2010 at 9:36 am

    Christian Music is just very soothing to the ear and i feel uplifted when i hear about it *


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